My Friend Richard

Just spoke to my friend and co-worker of 17 years Richard about his recent break up from his Girlfriend. he seems to be in a good place and he actually asked her to move out of his house as she continued to be insecure and always accused him of cheating even though they spend every minute together, to the point where he said when do i have a chance to cheat , we are always together and she accuses him of not going to work and spending time with some Facebook  people he has as friends, all of which are lifelong family friends, that would be like me having being accused of an affair with Debbie a longtime friend of the family and having her as a Facebook friend and being accused of doing something indiscretionate with her....as if. So her Insecurity was her downfall and Rich did the right thing by escaping that deadend relationship, granted they have a child together and that will not change the good daddy he is to baby Lylee. He is 41 and no need for him to continually be the daddy to a 30 year old so called woman who can't clean or pick up her own shit and always ragging on his ass about his OCD and the fact that the baby will soon crawl amongst her filty lifestyle is a big concern to Rich. So Rich is in a better place, was kind enough to move her stuff out and said his goodbyes,i told him that he needed 50% custody and to take the baby either alternating weeks or break up the week and do alternating 3 and 4 day shifts with alternating weekends fit in there. I did suggest that he draw something up and at least get it notarized so that he can have proof that they agreed upon this and that they each will support this baby 50% Emotionally,physically and financially! He agreed and she does not want to go through the court system and wants to arrange their own agreement which is fine for now but I fear that she will draw him into court at one time or another, just her personality, especially when he starts dating other woman and finding somebody else, then it will kick in and she won't be feeling too good about him moving on, he will always be the Baby's daddy and a good one too, he is a good kid and actually sees my therapist weekly and has an appointment tonight which is a good thing to help him with the closure of this relationship, Morales did tell Rich that she would not be a permanent fixture in his life and would one day move on , he was right, i am glad that Rich kicked her ass out and that he called this shot and was tired of raising 2 children. so i was glad to talk to him this morning and know he is in a better place. Well the morning is in full force , i made fried potatoes and ham,cheese and onion omelets for the crew this morning, tomorrow i am making Kapn Crunch coated French toast and maybe some sausage to go with it, don't rightly know yet but it will be good whatever i make for them. love being appreciated and love to cook for those who truly enjoy eating well made food! So the morning is bright and sun is still shining upon me today, i hope the day progresses quickly, i want to hit balls at ;lunchtime and then go to the gym at Bally's after work. coming up on the 10 am hour her in about 30 minutes, i sit at the front desk from 10-12 and then go to lunch , enjoy the day and working in this office and it's laid back and carefree attitude, i do appreciate the goodness that is bestowed upon my life both at home and here at work, too much to truly comprehend and I do give thanks to God for everything I have and everything i have been privileged to experience in my relatively young lifetime. so here's to a continued great day and hope the sun does peak through for everybody this fine day.. good times!