the 1975 - somebody else // lyrics

I went For A Drive

 As usual my days are somewhat planned

I will go to the gym

I will go to the beach

I have my camera at the ready just in case

Today I skipped the beach

Decided on a long drive to an old launch of mine 

I decided to drive my favorite mountain road ever

The majestic Lake Casitas run on highway 150

Many past memories good and bad were ever present

This is the road I frequented while riding my motorcycles 

The road I estimate I have ridden 500 times

The road that almost killed me twice

It's been 5-6 years since I had ridden a motorcycle 

I miss the thrills, but the risks were too great

Each turn I choreographed as if I were on one of my motorcycles

Realizing the car I drive was not going to cut it

As the drive progressed my mind was wandering

Half on the road, half remembering when Terria and I would ride 

She had her bike, I had mine we shared the passion for a brief time

I recalled the worries about her safety as I constantly glanced back

The drive continued and I have memorized every turn and bump

I reach the roads end and jump on the freeway

As I head South towards home I am blaring my music

Another trigger song comes on and I play it through

Funny how chance plays a part in things

The song that came on has dual meaning to me

It was the only song I ever danced with Terria at our sons wedding

It came on the very spot Terria and I pulled off and got frisky 38 years ago

I didn't know whether to be happy, sad or furious

I cried for 5 miles and reminded myself that it didn't have to be like this

The cruel irony haunts me from time to time

The song by the 1975 "Somebody Else"

Going Back

 If I could turn back the hands of time

I probably would change a few thing

I never wanted a family ,wife or kids

Yet I did on both accounts

Would I change all of that

Should I have changed all of that

Through things I never wanted

I received an incredible amount of joy

Two failed marriages

Two broken families

Too much pain and destruction

One common denominator....ME

I've taken ownership of my misgivings

My bad decisions and awful actions

I look at the rubble piled behind me

So I stop looking back and look ahead

So many things I never said

Too many things I actually did

So much resentment from every angle

I've handled it well regardless of how they feel

I'm taking a step in a new direction

Health and welfare at the front of the line

My petty concerns are gone for good

My self-preservation at the hands of others

I've lived a great life done everything I've wanted

Not really much left but to collect a few paychecks

I won't go easily into the night

The darkness I create will be intentional

Opportunities Knock

 Every day and opportunity passes by

Each day I let it through

I can't grasp the freedoms to choose

So I make no choices at all

I'm not ready to dive in again

I won't be for a long time 

The daily rituals I call my own

I enjoy my schedule the way it is

When I get the call, the text, the mail

I read each line with a guarded mind and heart

Responsibility is not my friend

I can only be responsible for myself

I can't give you what you deserve today

I don't want to give at all

When new opportunities come my way

I must turn and walk away

My complexities since replaced with simplicity

I have no reasons to play that part

I drive alone, I think alone 

Where I'm at my very best

The warning label emblazoned on my head

Ever present never hidden

This is who and what I am

It's better that they stay away

 

Some day things will change

Not sure I'll worry too much

I'm enjoying being a single retiree

I write my rules and break them when I want to

Broken But Solid

 My body is broken ,damaged goods

My mind wanders from side to side

I always doubt my end results

My world is changing by the day

I keep looking back to my past

How did I make it this far

Where will I be in the morning?

I just got the opportunity to get there

It's been awhile since I held that conversation 

So refreshing to hear those words

I'm at peace in my world

The healing has since begun

Too much stock and emphasis placed

On something that doesn't want or care

In realizing it's ok to be flawed

Find another playground to call home

While you live your best life without me

I live my most enjoyable without you

My responsibility stands with me and for me

That freedom invigorates and allows me peace

You can enjoy February 14th like you should

I can enjoy my free spirit and schedule i create 

Days of something or nothing at all

Choices I make that affect only me

As I drive around town and look for ideas

People and places don't matter anymore

My favorite places and things to do

A 4 hour drive for no reason at all

No explanations or reasoning

No need to be accounted for

A life better lived alone and at peace with myself

Than to ask permission for all of the wrong things

Yes my body is broken but my mind is at peace

I'm on solid footing and I've changed my lanes

From moving in one direction now moving my compass

This solitude is what I've always needed